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Serious Topics Table of Contents

4/12/2022

The Make Fun Of Life! Website is dedicated to survivors, who live with the effects of trauma in their lives daily, and to all individuals seeking the best of that which is worth knowing in life.

Welcome to the Serious Topics Page Table of Contents. What will you find here?

• Difficult Pasts
• Difficult Present Times
• Difficult Futures
• Words Heal

More topics are now in development and will be published when completed, and the presently published topics will be improved over time.

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Difficult Pasts

4/11/2022

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“Regardless of your past, your future is a clean slate.” -Author Unknown

“There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.” -C. S. Lewis (Clive Staples Lewis (1898 - 1963))

No longer forward nor behind
     I look in hope and fear;
But grateful take the good I find,
     The best of now and here.
-John Greenleaf Whittier (1807 - 1892): “My Psalm” (1859)

“Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.” -Author Unknown

“The people and places and circumstances that broke you will not be the ones that fix you. You must find something else.” -David Hugh Beaumont (born 1966)

“It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue, and the pain lessens, but it is never gone.” -Rose Fitzgerald Kennedy (1890 - 1995)

“The past . . . We may strive, with good reason, to escape it, or to escape what is bad in it, but we will escape it only by adding something better to it.” -Wendell Berry (Wendell Erdman Berry (born 1934))

“Look back, and smile on perils past.” -Walter Scott (1771 - 1832)

“I am better than I was. I’ll be better than I am.” -Author Unknown

“Your past doesn’t define you. Every day is an opportunity to begin again.” -Author Unknown

“Some doors are best left closed.” -George R. R. Martin (George Raymond Richard Martin (born 1948))

“There is so much to forget . . .” -David Hugh Beaumont (born 1966)

“Forgetting is the cost of living cheerfully.” -Zoë Akins (Zoë Byrd Akins (1886 - 1958))

“I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.” -Maya Angelou (Marguerite Ann Johnson (1928 - 2014))

For lo, the winter is past,
the rain is over and gone;
the flowers appear on the earth;
the time of the singing of birds is come,
and the voice of the turtledove
is heard in our land.
-Author Unknown: “The Bible,” ‘Song of Solomon,’ chapter 2, verses 11 and 12

“I admire people who choose to shine even after all the storms they’ve been through.” -Author Unknown

“As memory may be a Paradise from which we cannot be driven, it may also be a Hell from which we cannot escape.” -John Lancaster Spalding (1840 - 1916)

Some Examples of People with Difficult Pasts
- Post-Traumatic Stress Survivors
- Child Abuse Survivors
- Domestic Abuse Survivors
- Traumatic Incident Survivors
- Long-term Trauma Survivors
- Abduction Survivors
- Hostage Survivors
- Crime Victims
- Can you add to this list?

“Make peace with your past so that it doesn’t spoil your present.” -Author Unknown

“Life is a weird journey.” -Author Unknown: “The Pretender” (1996 - 2000), ‘Nip and Tuck’ (6 December 1997); line spoken by fictional character Jerod; type of work: television series

“Whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go, just remember how far you have come. Remember everything you have faced, all the battles you have won, and all the fears you have overcome.” -Author Unknown

Re-examine what you have been taught;
Discard what wounds your soul.
-Walt Whitman (1819 - 1892)

“Smile and let everyone know that today, you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday.” -Author Unknown

“Maybe it’s not always about trying to fix something broken. Maybe it’s about starting over and creating something better.” -Author Unknown

“The past cannot be changed, but the future is still in your power.” -Hugh White

“One of the things which danger does to you after a time is -, well, to kill emotion. I don’t think I shall ever feel anything again except fear. None of us can hate anymore - or love.” -Graham Greene (1904 - 1991): “The Confidential Agent” (1939)

“A difficult past does not mean the difficulties are past . . . years and decades later, we may still live with the effects. And, if that is the case, then the only way we can ever get past the difficulties of the past is by some actions we ourselves must take.” -David Hugh Beaumont (born 1966)

“What happened in the past that was painful has a great deal to do with what we are today.” -William Glasser (1925 - 2013)

Live in the Present

One day at a time
     this is enough.
Do not look back
     and grieve over the past
for it is gone;
     and do not be troubled
about the future
     for it has not yet come.
Live in the present
     and make it so beautiful
that it will be worth
     remembering!

by Author Unknown

“A drowning man will grab even the point of a sword.” -Author Unknown

“It won’t do you any good to run if you’re running the wrong way.” -Author Unknown

“Running away from your past without a place to go is a race you can never win because it never ends. You will always be worn down and remain broken if that is what you continue to do. You must instead try to find temporary safety and sanctuary, places where you can build yourself up and grow strong. Stop running, long enough to look around for something to run toward, because none of us can run forever. You must find the places where you can build a life for yourself.” -David Hugh Beaumont (born 1966)

“The best way to forget the bad things in life is to learn to remember the good things.” -Mark Amend

“You will find it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are too heavy.” -Corrie ten Boom (Cornelia ‘Corrie’ ten Boom (1892 - 1983))

“There are chapters in every life which are seldom read and certainly not aloud.” -Carol Shields (Carol Ann Shields (1935 - 2003))

“Your past is not your identity . . . You, living now, is your identity.” -George Lawrence-Ell (born 1940): “The Invisible Clock” (February 2002)

“You may not be where you want to be, but you can look back and be thankful you’re not where you used to be.” -Joel Osteen (born 1963)

“I’ve had so many knives stuck into me, when they hand me a flower I can’t quite make out what it is. It takes time.” -Charles Bukowski (1920 - 1994): “Sarcasm from the Balcony” (5 June 1993)

“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.” -Carl Bard

“It doesn’t matter where you’ve been, only where you are going.” -L. M. Fields

“Don’t judge me by my past. I don’t live there anymore.” -Author Unknown

“Think forward! Concentrate on who you want to be and where you want to go, not on who you were or where you’ve been.” -Michael Josephson (born 1942)

“Someone once asked me how I hold my head up so high after all I have been through. I said it’s because no matter what, I am a survivor, not a victim.” -Patricia Buckley (Patricia Aldyen Austin Taylor Buckley (1926 - 2007))

“The past does not define you, the present does.” -Jillian Michaels

“Your past doesn’t determine your future.” -Mike Litman

“I know well what I am fleeing from but not what I am in search of.” -Michel de Montaigne (Michel Eyquem de Montaigne (1533 - 1592)): “Essais” (“Essays”) (March 1580), Book 3, chapter 9

“I’ve never met a strong person with an easy past.” -Author Unknown

“The past does not have to be your prison. You have a choice in your destiny. You have a say in your life. You have a choice in the path you take.” -Max Lucado (born 1955): “When God Whispers Your Name” (1994)
[Predestiny and Free-Will]

“That which cannot be repaired is not to be regretted.” -Samuel Johnson (1709 - 1784): “Rasselas” (1759), chapter IV

“If you let go of the past, it no longer has a hold on you.” -Author Unknown

“There is a way to look at the past. Don’t hide from it. It will not catch you - if you don’t repeat it.” -Pearl Bailey (Pearl Mae Bailey (1918 - 1990))

“When looking back doesn’t interest you anymore, you’re doing something right.” -Author Unknown

“Sometimes the nightmares and panic only stop after we let go of the past, only after we are far away from it in time and space, after we have changed everything about ourselves and our lives.” -David Hugh Beaumont (born 1966)

“I cannot change yesterday, but I can change today.” -Author Unknown

“Sometimes I wish I could go back and tell myself what I know now.” -Author Unknown

“Living from fears created as a result of your past will just weigh you down. Just because something bad happened before, doesn’t mean it will again.” -Lisa Prosen

“I learned . . . that one can never go back, that one should not ever try to go back - that the essence of life is going forward. Life is really a one-way street, isn’t it?” -Agatha Christie (Agatha Mary Clarissa Christie (1890 - 1976))

“Do not let the future be held hostage by the past.” -Neal A. Maxwell (Neal Ash Maxwell (1926 - 2004))

“The past has no power over the present moment.” -Eckhart Tolle (born as Ulrich Leonard Tölle (born 1948))

“There comes a point when it’s best to stop trying to make sense out of things that just don’t make any sense.” -Author Unknown

“Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go.” -Hermann Hesse (1877 - 1962)

“To get over the past, you first have to accept that the past is over. No matter how many times you revisit it, analyze it, regret it, or sweat it . . . it’s over. It can hurt you no more.” -Mandy Hale (born 1978)

“Stop holding on to what hurts. Reach for what makes you feel happy.” -Author Unknown

“How you see your future is much more important than what has happened in the past.” -Zig Ziglar (Hilary Hinton ‘Zig’ Ziglar (1926 - 2012))

“We do not heal the past by dwelling there. We heal the past by living in the present.” -Marianne Williamson (born 1952)

“From the ashes of your past come the bright stars of your future.” -Melvin Lewis Thomas

“The farther behind I leave the past, the closer I am to forging my own character.” -Isabelle Eberhardt (Isabelle Wilhelmine Marie Eberhardt (1877 - 1904))

“Forget what hurt you, but never forget what it taught you.” -Author Unknown

“We are stronger in the places we have been broken.” -Ernest Hemingway (Ernest Miller Hemingway (1899 - 1961))

“Do not let the past hold you back; you will miss all the good stuff.” -Author Unknown

“We all have stories we won’t ever tell.” -Author Unknown

“I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become.” -C. G. Jung (Carl Gustav Jung (1875 - 1961))

“Perhaps we have lost the lesson of a Biblical event. When Lot’s wife turned to look back, she was turned into a pillar of salt, and any of us likewise can be immobilized by spending too much time considering the past - trying to figure out its meaning, wondering what might have been had it all been different, trying to answer why things happen to some people and not to others. We must not allow ourselves to be turned into forever frozen pillars of contemplation; we instead must go ever forward with our lives.” -David Hugh Beaumont (born 1966)

“Do not look back with regret; look forward with hope.” -Author Unknown

“You never get to fix the past. All you can do is to get as far away from it as possible.” -Elizabeth Blair

“The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you cannot go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.” -Author Unknown

“If you focus on what you have left behind, you will never be able to see what lies ahead.” -Author Unknown

“It may take time, but I will learn to love myself.” -Author Unknown

“There’s no reason to look back when you have so much to look forward to.” -Author Unknown

“Whatever your past has been, you have a spotless future.” -Melanie Gustafson

“In thinking back, I wish I could go back, and fix all the wrongs and make everything right and wonderful for everyone, yet I know none of this is possible. So, I am looking forward and imagining what could be . . . and working hard in the present to try to make that imagined future into a real one . . .” -David Hugh Beaumont (born 1966)

“Forget the past and live the present hour.” -Sarah Knowles Bolton (1841 - 1916)

“Shut out all of your past except that which will help you weather your tomorrows.” -William Osler (1849 - 1919)

“Don’t be bitter about your past. Just do all you can to make your present and future better.” -Author Unknown

“If you must look back, do so forgivingly. If you must look forward, do so prayerfully. However, the wisest thing you can do is be present in the present . . . Gratefully.” -Maya Angelou (Marguerite Ann Johnson (1928 - 2014))

What a long, strange journey it has been - but no matter what your past, your future can be one of opportunities and possibilities . . . and your future begins this very moment . . . and continues anew in each moment that follows. This is ‘MFOL!’ . . . we are always here . . . so you can visit whenever you like.

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Difficult Present Times

4/10/2022

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Picture of a road with puddles of water on it, bordered on both sides by green grass and trees, with a heavily clouded sky overhead, portending rain, and three birds in the sky.

“You may not always be where you want to be, but you’re somewhere. It is in where you choose to go from here that your true potential lies.” -Author Unknown

“There is true courage in the acts of everyday living.” -Rick Beneteau

“Life is tough, my darling, but so are you.” -Stephanie Bennett-Henry

“If you are having one of those days, when life feels like one big struggle, breathe and focus on this moment now. This moment right here. Read this. We want you to know that you are a blessing in the world and who you are and what you do matters. Promise.” -Anna Taylor

“The situation you live in doesn’t have to live in you.” -Roberta Flank

“The willow knows what the storm does not: that the power to endure harm outlives the power to inflict it.” -Author Unknown: “Blood of the Martyr,” card illustrated by Christopher Rush (1965 - 2016)

“Don’t let the low times keep you down. Learn from them and reach for the high times.” -David Wiemers

“Know that the pain will pass, and when it does you will be stronger.” -Author Unknown

“Your present situation is not your final destination. The better and the best are yet to come.” -Author Unknown

“Keep fighting. Stay strong. Your life may feel like a mess right now, but there will be an end to this part.” -Author Unknown

“You have to believe that the best will happen.” -Lacy Richardson

“Life is a circle of happiness, sadness, hard times, and good times. If you are going through hard times have faith that good times are on the way.” -Author Unknown

“Be gentle with yourself. You’re doing the best you can.” -Author Unknown

“There are only two remedies for the suffering of the soul: hope and patience.” -Pythagoras (Pythagoras of Samos (about 570 B.C.E. - about 495 B.C.E.))

“Everything is going to be all right, maybe not today, but eventually.” -Author Unknown

“Just because your world is falling apart doesn’t mean you have to fall apart. When everything seems crazy, you be calm. Don’t let the outer chaos you are facing get inside of you.” -Bryant McGill (born 1969)

“Even the darkest night will end and the Sun will rise.” -Victor Hugo (Victor Marie Hugo (1802 - 1885)): “Les Misérables”

“If I am not for myself, who will be?” -Pirke Avoth

“I can’t tell you when, but I can promise you it will get better, it will get easier, and it will all be worthwhile. Just promise me you won’t ever give up.” -Author Unknown

“It’s time to take your life back from the people that are causing you pain and making you unhappy. Remember, this is your life and you are the author of your story. If you’re stuck on the same page . . . just remember that at any moment you have the power to write a new chapter.” -Author Unknown

“We really have to fight some of the bad days to experience the best days of our life.” -Author Unknown

“Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help you create the fact.” -William James (1842 - 1910): “The Will to Believe and Other Essays in Popular Philosophy” (1897)

“Sometimes holding on makes you stronger; sometimes it’s letting go.” -Author Unknown

“No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities - always see them, for they’re always there.” -Norman Vincent Peale (1898 - 1993)

“Sometimes you just have to bow your head, say a prayer, and weather the storm.” -Andrew Guzaldo

“Look for something positive in each day, even if some days you have to look a little harder.” -Author Unknown

“Press on! A better fate awaits thee.” -Victor Hugo (Victor Marie Hugo (1802 - 1885))

“When life is viewed as good, a bad day is easily absorbed.” -Neal A. Maxwell (Neal Ash Maxwell (1926 - 2004))

“Perhaps I am stronger than I think.” -Thomas Merton (1915 - 1968)

“Endure, and preserve yourself for better things.” -Vergil (Publius Vergilius Maro, also known as Virgil (70 B.C.E. - 19 B.C.E.))

Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass . . .
It’s about learning how to dance in the rain.
-Vivian Greene

“The darkest hour has only sixty minutes.” -Morris Mandel

“Have courage for the great sorrows of life and patience for the small ones; and then when you have accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace. God is awake.” -Victor Hugo (Victor Marie Hugo (1802 - 1885))

“There was never a night or a problem that could defeat sunrise or hope.” -Bern Williams

“Swimming for his life, a man does not see much of the country through which the river winds.” -William Gladstone (William Ewart Gladstone (1809 - 1898)): diary entry (31 December 1868)

“There is nothing we cannot live down, rise above, and overcome.” -Ella Wheeler Wilcox (1850 - 1919)

Be glad today. Tomorrow may bring tears.
Be brave today. The darkest night will pass.
And golden rays will usher in the dawn.
Who conquers now shall rule the coming years.
-Sarah Knowles Bolton

“Expect to have hope rekindled. Expect your prayers to be answered in wondrous ways. The dry seasons in life do not last. The Spring rains will come again.” -Sarah Ban Breathnach (born 1947); website: http://www.sarahbanbreathnach.com/

“It is always darkest just before the day dawneth.” -Thomas Fuller (1608 - 1661): “A Pisgah-Sight of Palestine” (1650), Book II, chapter XI

“No matter what happens, no matter how far you seem to be away from where you want to be, never stop believing that you will somehow make it. Have an unrelenting belief that things will work out, that the long road has purpose, that the things that you desire may not happen today, but they will happen. Continue to persist and persevere.” -Brad Gast

“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.” -Maya Angelou (Marguerite Ann Johnson (1928 - 2014))

“For suffering and enduring there is no remedy, but striving and doing.” -Thomas Carlyle (1795 - 1881)

If I Can Endure

If I can endure for this minute
     whatever is happening to me
No matter how heavy my heart is
     or how dark the moment might be . . .
If I can but keep on believing what
     I know in my heart to be true,
That darkness will fade with morning
     and that this will pass away, too . . .
Then nothing can ever disturb me
     or fill me with uncertain fear,
For as sure as night brings dawning,
     my morning is bound to appear . . .

by Author Unknown

“Sometimes the strongest among us are the ones who smile through silent pain, cry behind closed doors, and fight battles nobody knows about.” -Author Unknown

“Here is a test to find whether your mission on Earth is finished: If you’re alive, it isn’t.” -Richard Bach (Richard David Bach (born 1936)): “Illusions” (1977), chapter 15

“The struggle you’re in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow.” -Author Unknown

“I wish I could go back to a time when I could smile and it didn’t take everything in me to do it.” -Author Unknown

“Someday, we’ll forget the hurt, the reason we cried, and who caused us pain. We will finally realize that the secret of being free is not revenge, but letting things unfold in their own way and own time. After all, what matters is not the first, but the last chapter of our life, which shows how well we ran the race. So smile, laugh, forgive, believe, and live all over again.” -Author Unknown

“No matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.” -Maya Angelou (Marguerite Ann Johnson (1928 - 2014))

“Even in the bleakest times there are gifts to be discovered.” -Jann Mitchell

You fall, you rise, you
make mistakes, you live
you learn. You’re human
not perfect. You’ve been
hurt, but you’re alive.
Think of what a precious
privilege it is to be alive -
to breath, to think, to
enjoy, and to chase the
things you love.
Sometimes there is
sadness in our journey,
but there is also lots of
beauty. We must keep
putting one foot in front of
the other even when we
hurt, for we will never
know what is waiting for
us just around the bend.
-Author Unknown

“You must tell yourself, no matter how hard it is, or how hard it gets, I’m going to make it.” -Author Unknown

“Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.” -Author Unknown

“Endure, and keep yourself for days of happiness.” -Mary Engelbreit (born 1952)

“Everyday courage has few witnesses. But yours is no less noble because no drum beats for you and no crowds shout your name.” -Robert Louis Stevenson (Robert Louis Balfour Stevenson (1850 - 1894))

“The best bridge between despair and hope is a good night’s sleep.” -E. Joseph Cossman (Eli Joseph Cossman (1918 - 2002))

“Tomorrow is a new day.” -Author Unknown

“Sometimes you just have to be patient and brave and strong. If you don’t know how, just make it up as you go along.” -Douglas Pagels (born 1950)

“The truth is, no matter what your current circumstances, if you can imagine something better for yourself, you can create it.” -John Assaraf

This is MFOL! . . . so many people have been where you are now in life and have gone on to live lives better than they ever could have imagined would be possible . . .

“Sometimes you just have to bow your head, say a prayer, and weather the storm.” -Author Unknown

“Look for something positive in each day, even if some days you have to look a little harder.” -Author Unknown

“Press on! A better fate awaits thee.” -Victor Hugo (Victor Marie Hugo (1802 - 1885))

“When life is viewed as good, a bad day is easily absorbed.” -Neal A. Maxwell (Neal Ash Maxwell (1926 - 2004))

“Perhaps I am stronger than I think.” -Thomas Merton (1915 - 1968)

“Endure, and preserve yourself for better things.” -Vergil (Publius Vergilius Maro, also known as Virgil (70 B.C.E. - 19 B.C.E.))

Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass . . .
It’s about learning how to dance in the rain.
-Vivian Greene

“The darkest hour has only sixty minutes.” -Morris Mandel

“Have courage for the great sorrows of life and patience for the small ones; and then when you have accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace. God is awake.” -Victor Hugo (Victor Marie Hugo (1802 - 1885))

“There was never a night or a problem that could defeat sunrise or hope.” -Bern Williams

“Swimming for his life, a man does not see much of the country through which the river winds.” -William Gladstone (William Ewart Gladstone (1809 - 1898)): diary entry (31 December 1868)

“There is nothing we cannot live down, rise above, and overcome.” -Ella Wheeler Wilcox (1850 - 1919)

“Expect to have hope rekindled. Expect your prayers to be answered in wondrous ways. The dry seasons in life do not last. The Spring rains will come again.” -Sarah Ban Breathnach (born 1947); website: http://www.sarahbanbreathnach.com/

“It is always darkest just before the day dawneth.” -Thomas Fuller (1608 - 1661): “A Pisgah-Sight of Palestine” (1650), Book II, chapter XI

“No matter what happens, no matter how far you seem to be away from where you want to be, never stop believing that you will somehow make it. Have an unrelenting belief that things will work out, that the long road has purpose, that the things that you desire may not happen today, but they will happen. Continue to persist and persevere.” -Brad Gast

“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.” -Maya Angelou (Marguerite Ann Johnson (1928 - 2014))

“For suffering and enduring there is no remedy, but striving and doing.” -Thomas Carlyle (1795 - 1881)

If I Can Endure

If I can endure for this minute
     whatever is happening to me
No matter how heavy my heart is
     or how dark the moment might be . . .
If I can but keep on believing what
     I know in my heart to be true,
That darkness will fade with morning
     and that this will pass away, too . . .
Then nothing can ever disturb me
     or fill me with uncertain fear,
For as sure as night brings dawning,
     my morning is bound to appear . . .

-Author Unknown

“Sometimes the strongest among us are the ones who smile through silent pain, cry behind closed doors, and fight battles nobody knows about.” -Author Unknown

“Here is a test to find whether your mission on Earth is finished: If you’re alive, it isn’t.” -Richard Bach (Richard David Bach (born 1936)): “Illusions” (1977), chapter 15

“I wish I could go back to a time when I could smile and it didn’t take everything in me to do it.” -Author Unknown

“Someday, we’ll forget the hurt, the reason we cried, and who caused us pain. We will finally realize that the secret of being free is not revenge, but letting things unfold in their own way and own time. After all, what matters is not the first, but the last chapter of our life, which shows how well we ran the race. So smile, laugh, forgive, believe, and live all over again.” -Author Unknown

“No matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.” -Maya Angelou (Marguerite Ann Johnson (1928 - 2014))

“Even in the bleakest times there are gifts to be discovered.” -Jann Mitchell

You fall, you rise, you
make mistakes, you live
you learn. You’re human
not perfect. You’ve been
hurt, but you’re alive.
Think of what a precious
privilege it is to be alive -
to breath, to think, to
enjoy, and to chase the
things you love.
Sometimes there is
sadness in our journey,
but there is also lots of
beauty. We must keep
putting one foot in front of
the other even when we
hurt, for we will never
know what is waiting for
us just around the bend.
-Author Unknown

“Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.” -Author Unknown

“Endure, and keep yourself for days of happiness.” -Mary Engelbreit (born 1952)

“Everyday courage has few witnesses. But yours is no less noble because no drum beats for you and no crowds shout your name.” -Robert Louis Stevenson (Robert Louis Balfour Stevenson (1850 - 1894))

“The best bridge between despair and hope is a good night’s sleep.” -E. Joseph Cossman (Eli Joseph Cossman (1918 - 2002))

“Tomorrow is a new day.” -Author Unknown

“The truth is, no matter what your current circumstances, if you can imagine something better for yourself, you can create it.” -John Assaraf

This is MFOL! . . . so many people have been where you are now in life and have gone on to live lives better than they ever could have imagined would be possible . . .

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Difficult Futures

4/9/2022

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What lies ahead is uncertain . . . it always has been . . . from out of the past you have made it to this time and place . . . and you will do it yet again . . .

“Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present.” -Marcus Aurelius (Marcus Aurelius Antoninus (C.E. 121 - C.E. 180)): “The Meditations” (C.E. 167)

“It’s not the future that you’re afraid of. It’s repeating the past that makes you anxious.” -Author Unknown

“The best way to prepare for the future is to take care of the present.” -Author Unknown

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.” -Eleanor Roosevelt (Anna Eleanor ‘Eleanor’ Roosevelt (1884 - 1962))

“You’ll never know how strong you are . . . until being strong is the only choice you have.” -Author Unknown

“Why should we refuse the happiness this hour gives us, because some other hour might take it away?” -John Hobbes

“Don’t try to live too many days at a time.” -Harold B. Lee

“One day, I realized that life was too short to worry about what might happen, so I decided to live in the moment and follow my heart.” -Author Unknown

“An uncertain future leaves us stranded in an unhappy present with nothing to do but wait.” -Peter Bregman

“Don’t confuse your path with your destination. Just because it’s stormy now doesn’t mean that you aren’t headed for sunshine.” -Author Unknown

“It is not the cares of today, but the cares of tomorrow, that weigh a man down.” -George MacDonald

“Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and start being positive about what could go right.” -Author Unknown

“You have a disagreeable duty to do at 12 o’clock. Do not blacken nine and ten and eleven, and all between, with the color of twelve. Do the work of each and reap your reward in peace. So when the dreaded moment in the future becomes the present, you shall meet it walking in the light, and that light will overcome its darkness.” -George MacDonald (1824 - 1905)

“Trust yourself. You have survived a lot and you will survive whatever is coming.” -Author Unknown

“I am not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and I love today!” -Friedrich Nietzsche (Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche (1844 - 1900))

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Dear Future,

Please have at least something that is worth the wait. I am hoping that my memories will be less scary than now. Thank you for giving me the reason to move forward hoping that you will be good to me. Forgive me for being unprepared this time, but I will make sure that I will be better when I finally meet you.

Love,

Me

by Author Unknown

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“Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God.” -Corrie Ten Boom (Cornelia ‘Corrie’ ten Boom (1892 - 1983))

“Trust yourself. You’ve survived a lot, and you’ll survive whatever is coming.” -Robert Tew

We are MFOL! . . . wishing you many trouble-free days as you step into a future of endless possibilities . . .

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Words Heal

4/8/2022

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“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” -Edwin Hubbell Chapin (1814 - 1880): as quoted in Josiah Hotchkiss Gilbert: “Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers” (1895)

“When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.” -Author Unknown

“Every piece of the Universe, even the tiniest little snow crystal, matters somehow. I have a place in the pattern, and so do you . . .” -T. G. Barron (Thomas Archibald Barron (born 1952))

“Have you ever heard the expression, “Words wound”? It is true, they do. Words can crush, destroy, disparage. But, the right words can also reassure, calm, guide, uplift, validate . . . words can do wonders.” -David Hugh Beaumont (born 1966)

“Life is terribly deficient in form. Its catastrophes happen in the wrong way and to the wrong people.” -Oscar Wilde (Oscar Fingal O’Flahertie Wills ‘Oscar’ Wilde (1854 - 1900))

Whatever your conditions, you will find comfort in words. Let us share some good words here, making this a place you can turn to when you need something to occupy your mind and lessen the bad memories, worries, doubts, and fears; something to hold onto in the mind when the nightmares and flashbacks and panic and anxiety and loneliness and frustrations come.

“The sunniest lives have seasons of shadow.” -Author Unknown

“Not all scars show, not all wounds heal. Sometimes you can’t always see the pain someone feels.” -Jennifer Shin

A wretched soul, bruis’d with adversity,
We bid be quiet, when we hear it cry;
But were we burthen’d with like weight of pain,
As much, or more, we should ourselves complain.
-William Shakespeare (1564 - 1616): “The Comedy of Errors” (1594), ‘Adriana,’ act I, scene ii

Would you commit just one positive thought to memory today? Repeat it a few times, try to remember it a few times, and it can be yours forever.

“Broken wings mend in time, and you will fly again.” -Author Unknown

“Courage is the price that Life exacts for granting peace.” -Amelia Earhart (Amelia Mary Earhart (1897 - 1937))

“The scars you can’t see are the hardest to heal.” -Astrid Alauda (pseudonym of Terri Guillemets (born 1973))

“Let your heart feel for the distress and affliction of everyone.” -George Washington (1732 - 1799)

“When tragic things begin to seem funny, health has begun.” -Author Unknown

“Someone’s opinion of you does not have to become your reality.” -Author Unknown: originally said to Les Brown (Leslie Calvin ‘Les’ Brown (born 1945)) by one of his high school teachers

“The human spirit is stronger than anything that can happen to it.” -Author Unknown

“Those who bring sunshine to the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves.” -J. M. Barrie (James Matthew Barrie (1860 - 1937))

“A new wound makes all the old ones ache again.” -Mignon McLaughlin (1913 - 1983): “The Neurotic’s Notebook” (1960)

“I would like to learn, or remember, how to live.” -Annie Dillard (born 1945 as Meta Ann Doak): “Teaching a Stone to Talk” (1982), page 15

“Don’t let a bad day make you feel like you have a bad life.” -Author Unknown

“It is easy to look at people and make quick judgements about them, their presents and their pasts, but you would be amazed at the pain and tears a single smile can hide. What people show to the world is only a tiny facet of the iceberg hidden from sight. And more often than not, it is lined with cracks and scars that go all the way through to the foundation of their souls. Never judge in haste; learn to understand, respect, and acknowledge the feelings of others.” -Author Unknown

“The world is round, and the place which may seem like the end may also be only the beginning.” -Ivy Baker Priest (1905 - 1975)

“Find a place inside where there’s joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.” -Joseph Campbell (1904 - 1987)

“Strong people are made by opposition, like kites that go up against the wind.” -Frank Harris (1856 - 1931)

“Whatever you do in this world, no matter how good it is, you will never be able to please everybody. All you can strive for is to do the best it is humanly possible for you to do.” -Jeri Ferris: “What I Had Was Singing: The Story of Marian Anderson” (1994)

I am you, contacting you from the future, to tell you that everything will be okay if you will just try to do your best today.

“Associate reverently, and as much as you can, with your loftiest thoughts.” -Henry David Thoreau (1817 - 1862)

“Don’t accept that others know you better than yourself.” -James Allen (1864 - 1912)

“The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love.” -Hubert Humphrey (Hubert Horatio Humphrey, Junior (1911 - 1978))

“Don’t despair; even the Sun has a sinking spell every night, but it rises again in the morning.” -Author Unknown

“I’ve seen what a good laugh can do. It can transform tears into hope.” -Bob Hope (Leslie Townes ‘Bob’ Hope (1903 - 2003))

“All service ranks the same with God.” -Robert Browning (1812 - 1889)

“There is a truth deep down inside of you that has been waiting for you to discover it, and that truth is this: You deserve all the good things life has to offer.” -Rhonda Byrne (born 1951 as Rhonda Izon)

“When the Japanese mend broken objects, they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something’s suffered damage and has a history it becomes more beautiful.” -Barbara Bloom (born 1951)

“The Japanese word ‘kintsukuroi’ means ‘to repair with gold.’ Kintsukuroi is the art of repairing broken pottery with gold or silver lacquer. The breakage and repair become part of the history of the object, making it more beautiful with its imperfections . . . like so many people’s lives.” -David Hugh Beaumont (born 1966)

“Life wounds all of us, to greatly varying degrees.” -Author Unknown

“Submarine navigators tell us that no storms ever reach very deep into the ocean. The water is perfectly calm a hundred feet down, no matter how high the breakers may rise on the surface. There is a quietude in the depths that no surface storms can disturb. This is possible, too, in human lives - there can be serenity and peace within, undisturbed by the storms of the world.” -Author Unknown: as published in “The Morning Herald” (14 April 1959), page 4; newspaper of Uniontown, Pennsylvania, United States of America

“When it is dark enough, you can see the stars.” -Charles A. Beard (Charles Austin Beard (1874 - 1948))

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal, it is the courage to continue that counts.” -Winston Churchill (Winston Leonard Spenser Churchill (1874 - 1965))

“After the darkness, light.” [translation to English]
“Post tenebras lux.” [original Latin]
-John Calvin (1509 - 1564)

“In the depths of Winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible Summer. And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger - something better, pushing right back.” -Albert Camus (1913 - 1960): “Lyrical and Critical Essays” (1968)

“God will not look you over for medals, degrees, or diplomas, but for scars.” -Elbert Hubbard (Elbert Green Hubbard (1856 - 1915))

“Words are our most inexhaustible source of magic, capable of both inflicting injury and remedying it.” -J. K. Rowling (Joanne Kathleen ‘Jo’ Rowling (born 1965)): “Harry Potter,” line spoken by character Albus Percival Wulfric Brian Dumbledore

“You live through the darkness from what you learned in the light.” -Hope MacDonald (born 1928): “When Angels Appear” (1983)

“I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing.” -Agatha Christie (Agatha Mary Clarissa Christie (1890 - 1976))

“A sorrow shared is but half a trouble, and a joy that’s shared is a joy made double.” -Arthur Donne

“No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of it to anyone else.” -Charles Dickens (Charles John Huffam Dickens (1812 - 1870))

“Look well into yourself; there is a source of strength which will always spring up if you will always look there.” -Marcus Aurelius (Marcus Aurelius Antoninus Augustus (C.E. 121 - C.E. 180))

“I can stick up for myself. I can be on my own side.” -Nola Langner (Nola Langner Malone (1930 - 2003)): “By the Light of the Silvery Moon” (1983)

“Time alone does not heal our wounds.” -Author Unknown

“I always try to turn my personal struggles into something helpful for others.” - Henri Nouwen (Henri Jozef Machiel Nouwen (1932 - 1996))

“Every winner has scars.” -Robert N. C. Nix (Robert Nelson Cornelius Nix, Junior (1928 - 2003))

“Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about learning how to dance in the rain.” -Author Unknown

“Have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves. Don’t search for the answers, which could not be given to you now, because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps, then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer, one distant day in the future.” -Rainer Maria Rilke (René Karl Wilhelm Johann Josef Maria Rilke (1875 - 1926)): letter (16 July 1903) to Franz Xaver Kappus

“Scars remind us of where we’ve been. They don’t have to dictate where we’re going.” -Author Unknown: “Criminal Minds,” Season 5, Episode 10 (9 December 2009); line spoken by fictional character David Rossi

“Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it.” -Helen Keller (Helen Adams Keller (1880 - 1968))

“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” -Leo Buscaglia (Felice Leonardo ‘Leo’ Buscaglia, also known as Leo F. Buscaglia (1924 - 1998))

“It takes courage to live a life, any life.” -Erica Jong (Erica Mann Jong (born 1942))

“The mind which does not wholly sink under misfortune rises above it more lofty than before, and is strengthened by affliction.” -Richard Chenevix (1774 - 1830): “An Essay Upon National Character” (1832), book I, part II, chapter III

“I guess my life hasn’t always been happy, or easy, or exactly what I want. At a certain point, I just have to try not to think too much about certain things, or else they’ll break my heart.” -Jonathan Franzen (Jonathan Earl Franzen (born 1959))

“Have courage for the great sorrows of life and patience for the small ones; and when you have laboriously accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace. God is awake.” -Victor Hugo (Victor Marie Hugo (1802 - 1885))

“We’re all a little broken, but last time I checked, broken crayons still color.” -Trent Shelton (Trent Simmons Shelton (born 1984))

“The strength will with the burden grow.” -Tom Taylor (1817 - 1880): “Abraham Lincoln” (1865), stanza 9, line 1, as quoted in the “London Punch” and in Edmund Clarence Stedman: “A Victorian Anthology” (1895); type of work: poem

“How people treat you says nothing about you, but everything about them.” -Author Unknown

“Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.” -Kahlil Gibran (1883 - 1931)

“Extraordinary people survive under the most terrible circumstances and they become more extraordinary because of it.” -Robertson Davies (William Robertson Davies (1913 - 1995))

“The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets. The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears. And the kindest hearts have felt the most pain.” -Author Unknown

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” -Elisabeth Kübler-Ross (1926 - 2004)

“Cast your stones, cast your judgement, you don’t make me who I am.” -Author Unknown

“The strongest people are not those who show strength in front of us but those who win battles we know nothing about.” -Author Unknown

“Those who have suffered understand suffering and therefore extend their hand.” -Pattie Smith (Patricia Lee ‘Pattie’ Smith (born 1946))

Strength is born
In the deep silence of long-suffering hearts;
Not amidst joy.
-Felicia Hemans (1793 - 1835): “The Siege of Valencia” (1823)

“From every wound there is a scar, and every scar tells a story. A story that says, ‘I survived.’” -Craig Scott

“Bad things happen but that does not mean that you stop living or that you stop trying. Bit by bit you find the strength, the will, and the courage to begin again.” -Author Unknown

“The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places.” -Ernest Hemingway (Ernest Miller Hemingway (1899 - 1961))

“It gets easier.” -Author Unknown

“I’ve got dreams in hidden places and extra smiles for when I’m blue.” -Author Unknown

“The challenges of life never cease, but our ability to face them gets better as time goes by.” -David Hugh Beaumont (born 1966)

Now go have the best imaginable day . . . and continue to MFOL!

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The Eagle and The Elephants

1/14/2021

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The Eagle

Once a farmer found an abandoned eagle’s nest, and in it was an egg that was still warm. He took the egg back to his farm and laid it in the nest of one of his hens. The egg hatched and the baby eagle grew up among the chickens. It scratched and pecked about in the farmyard, and scrambled for grain doled out by the farmer. It spent its life within the yard and rarely looked up. One day when it was very old, it lifted up its head and saw above it a wonderful sight - an eagle soaring high above in the sky. Looking at it, the old creature sighed and said to itself, “If only I’d been born an eagle.”

by Author Unknown

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The Elephants

As a man was passing a group of elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front legs; no chains and no cages confined them. It was obvious that the elephants could, at any time, break away from their bonds, but for some reason, they did not. He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood where they were and made no attempt to get away. “Well,” the trainer said, “when the elephants are very young and much smaller, we use the same size rope to tie them, and at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.” The man was amazed. These animals could at any time escape from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.

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How many of us go through life instilled with the belief that we cannot do something ever no matter how hard we try, simply because we could not do it at an earlier time or in a particular place? Failures and limitations and conditions imposed on us are not forever; we should never give up going through the struggles in life that take us to the point of success. To quote Bernice Johnson Reagon (born 1942), “Life’s challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they’re supposed to help you discover who you are.” Do you know who you really are?

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Learn to Smile Again

1/12/2021

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